Are Women Being Conned into Marriage Nowadays?

The average Nigerian babe can't wait to get married due to family, societal and peer pressures ( my friends are getting married). Even on their wedding day, the the joy is so evident on their faces. 

But many women are unhappy and being used in the so called marriages. They take care of the house, kids while combining it with their work/business. While the husband enjoys the whole service, in some cases still chasing fresh babes outside, some drop money for their wife upkeep while some don't even drop, expecting the wife to use her money. Due to societal and parental pressures too, some guys just con a girl to marry just so that they the men can be seen as responsible while still living their normal single lives but the lady gives up her life. lol. 

There are lots of them like that in my office, you see them tired, worn out and depressed. but is this fair?

Panachuku